tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897449755769077573.post5275389450949719923..comments2014-10-30T15:21:29.430-04:00Comments on What the control freak can't control: A broken hearted baby story: Bah humbugCarriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01283446560050799257noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897449755769077573.post-84133329725203331282013-11-19T09:52:23.219-05:002013-11-19T09:52:23.219-05:00Hang in there, Carrie. I am so sorry you have to ...Hang in there, Carrie. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I agree completely with Kathy. Milestones will always be tough, but especially the first year. I am getting ready to reach the 10-year mark in January of my mother's death and at times I am still reduced to a sobbing mess over her loss. And that really is nothing like losing a child. Be kind to yourself and don't be so hard on yourself (just like you told me last week!!)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00092253051122147161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897449755769077573.post-32966647131267148582013-11-18T15:45:00.273-05:002013-11-18T15:45:00.273-05:00Maybe you'd be interested in participating in ...Maybe you'd be interested in participating in this event (or making your own): http://www.compassionatefriends.org/News_Events/Special-Events/Worldwide_Candle_Lighting.aspxKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12388141330688141222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897449755769077573.post-48218242740337743142013-11-18T15:04:09.327-05:002013-11-18T15:04:09.327-05:00I'm so sorry. The first year, and every milest...I'm so sorry. The first year, and every milestone that would have been, will always be a challenge. Always. But, you can try to do something to incorporate Harper into your family traditions.<br /><br />It's also perfectly acceptable to have a mellow holiday season with just you and Lou and Shea that won't be too overwhelming for you.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12388141330688141222noreply@blogger.com